The author shares their journey of coping with the aftermath of breast cancer, detailing ongoing health issues like peripheral neuropathy, dehydration, malnutrition, and tachycardia. They document personal struggles, including dental problems and recent battles with COVID-19 and bronchitis, reflecting on the unexpected challenges faced during recovery.
How it all started…
The post reflects on a turbulent year marked by health challenges. Amidst navigating medical procedures during the pandemic, a wedding date clash arose, prompting a change of plans. The writer's resilience shines through, culminating in the removal of their gallbladder and a heartwarming wedding arrangement for the near future.
I’m back, BABY!
This post marks the writer's return to blogging after battling breast cancer. They express the difficulty of reliving the challenging experience and the ongoing impact it has on them. The blog aims to document their journey, including the side effects, appointments, and emotions, with the hope of providing support and understanding to others facing similar struggles.
Have spoon; will survive
The Spoon Theory illustrates the struggle of living with invisible illnesses, particularly anxiety disorders like Complex PTSD. It emphasizes the limited energy available for daily tasks, leading to feelings of inadequacy when plans fall through. The author advocates for self-advocacy, personal care, and promoting compassion as essential steps towards improved understanding and support among individuals facing similar challenges.
Dear Mom,
Sixteen years without a beloved mother have seen many life events unfold, including new grandchildren, graduations, and significant losses. The writer reflects on personal growth, a new marriage, and shared experiences with a partner. Despite life's distractions, the longing for connection and admiration for her mother's influence remain strong. Happy 65th birthday.
The world’s best drummer
The post shares a touching tribute to a friend, Ken, who passed away from cancer. The author reminisces about reuniting with Ken after years apart and reflects on his bravery and humor despite his illness. The post also celebrates Ken's love for his wife and children, expressing sympathy for their loss.
No longer a punching bag…
The passage emphasizes that domestic violence goes beyond physical abuse and can take the form of emotional, sexual, psychological, and financial abuse. It explores the reasons why victims may stay in such situations, including fear, financial dependency, and a sense of worthlessness. It highlights the importance of seeking help and support and provides resources for those in need.
If I knew then what I know now…
In late 2013, a breakup led to unexpected change. Rejoining a dating site brought new love. After months of messaging, the first meeting was a "game changer." The relationship progressed rapidly, with mutual understanding and love. Today, the future looks bright with a loving, kind, and supporting partner, making it a dream come true.
Life is what we make of it
We make plans for the future, with hopes and dreams marking a timeline, and every last detail scrutinized to death until we feel we'll go insane waiting for this future to arrive. But what if it is set in stone while the timeline feels borderline hypothetical due to being extremely flexible? The future known, yet... Continue Reading →
Let’s get physical
The writer recently started a new job that surprisingly involves customer service and inside sales at a women's fitness facility. Despite feeling pulled in many directions, the job is enjoyable, and the writer is reevaluating long-held beliefs to work toward a better future. Overall, life is seen as wonderfully chaotic.
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